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Recently, I received a very lovely review from a client and family I had supported. Their words meant a great deal to me, and they made me pause and think about the care, judgement and different skills involved in my work as a funeral celebrant in Lincolnshire. Much of a funeral celebrant’s work happens quietly,…

Recent Sad News Like so many people across the country, I have followed the recent news surrounding former Hull funeral director Robert Bush with great sadness. I was horrified, hearing the news back in April 2025. The court has now handed down a 20-year prison sentence for offences that have had a devastating impact on…

One of my earliest memories of my dad is from primary school. We were drawing pictures of our families and I drew my dad with no hair. My teacher asked why, and I replied, quite simply, “Because he just doesn’t have any hair!” That was Dad. He was tall and broad, with skin so fair…

Last week, I watched a series on BBC television, about tattoos.  I found myself seeing them in a completely different light! A Lasting Tribute: The program I found most interesting shared the stories of several women, all mothers who had experienced the unimaginable loss of their children to suicide.  Each woman decided to commemorate their…

Personalised Ceremony As your celebrant, I can create a fully customised ceremony that reflects your love story, values, and personalities, rather than following a standard script. You can write your own vows and the style of your wedding can be; Quirky, unique or non-traditional. Flexibility in Location Unlike traditional weddings, a celebrant can conduct your…

During May, I found myself asking the very question as I looked back on what turned out to be an incredibly busy and rewarding month. Alongside supporting my clients and conducting ceremonies, I attended Dying Matters Awareness Week in Scunthorpe, participated in a Difficult Conversations workshop with Phil Hutchinson & Gary Mumby. I joined Hitched.co.uk,…

The emotional weight of clearing your house after loss There’s something about a Bank Holiday weekend in May that brings a certain energy into our homes. Windows are opened, cupboards are sorted, old things are cleared out, to make space for something new. This year, like many others, I noticed the familiar rhythm, people decorating,…

This morning was like many others for me, it began with the quiet, familiar presence of our family dog… A quick visit in the garden and then the nudge, not in the least bit gentle, for a treat! The soft padding of paws across the floor and a cuddle on the sofa watching breakfast television!…

Poem The Easter Egg Challenge You wake on Easter morning,With the best of good intent,“Today I’ll be sensible with chocolate…”That’s the message your brain sent. You wander down in slippers,Still cosy, half awake,But there they sit, those Easter eggsMore than any heart could take. You tell yourself, “Just one small bit,”A tiny piece, that’s all…But…